It doesn’t matter if it’s a relationship, a lifestyle, or a job. If it doesn’t make you happy let it go.
Once you have her, don’t stop trying.
If you want to be with her then don’t half-ass the relationship weeks or months later. She doesn’t want “Temporary flings”, she’s looking for someone who she can invest her time and effort in, someone who will do the same for her, she wants something that will last, not some guy who’s going to quit when the relationship gets to hard for him. I mean you put all this effort into winning her heart in the beginning, do why stop trying? Be there for her when she needs you, show her that you genuinely care, don’t push her problems to the side, instead take the time to listen to her and find out what’s bothering her, take the time to know her as an individual . If you don’t try then she’ll eventually walk away because she’s tired of putting in all the effort, tired of waiting on someone who treats her like nothing. If she’s someone important to you then show her how much she means to you and put in that effort that a relationship needs to thrive upon, you know?
I’m tired of hearing lies. Show me that you actually mean what you say. Show me you’re worth staying for. Show me how much you need me. I don’t want to believe in lies anymore. I’m tired of getting hurt. I’m tired of bullshit.
If I didn’t, I would of walked out of your life. You need to start realizing the people who actually care to stay around and deal with you. Seriously, appreciate everything. Even if it’s little.